Such a lazy mouse. Nothing to say? This lack of writing is not a good omen. Well, something has come up to bring me back to the keyboard. A ghost of the past has come to haunt. It's no news that my transition came with a great loss of family and friends. Besides my three children, I can count on one hand the family members who stayed supportive to me and still have fingers left. The rest let me fall off the cliff and ran off before they could hear the thud of my impact with the rock bottom. I didn't have the energy to feel betrayed or to even wonder why at the time. Transition rips you open and turns you inside out, with everything you've ever felt laying bare on the grimy sidewalk, but you know that already or you wouldn't be reading my blog. It gets ugly. Now, after ten years, one of the detached has chosen to contact via social media with no explanation as to why. Just jumping into conversation as if I'd lost the memory of the last decade. Is this a probe? . . . to see if I am amicable to this re-connection? . . . do I hold no grudge? . . . is it "water under the bridge" and all that? I'm perplexed and confounded. So far, I've been cordial in my response but I find myself becoming bothered by it. My survival of the aforementioned ugly mess was aided by my acceptance of loss. Those who let me fall made that choice in their own interest and fear of the repercussions that come with an alliance to a social outcast as I was. Done and done. I survived, eventually, with the aid of true friends and allies and I now have more good people around me than ever before in my life. and a cat. always a cat. Suitable for a Jedi-Mouse. I think that an explanation of why should precede a reaching out a decade later by someone who was willing to watch you die. Yes?, no?, maybe? . . . I'll ask the cat.